Read about the positive impact an ACEVO membership has had on leadership journeys.
Moria Dennison, executive director, Iolanthe Midwifery Trust
There wasn’t a kind of light bulb moment that said I have to join ACEVO, but it was a more a gradual realisation about the level of the resources that I needed to take Iolanthe to the stage it needed to go to next and the sort of support I needed. Both were something that I could get through the ACEVO membership and its community, especially as I don’t have a management team!
It’s not uncommon in a lot of small charities to be very internally focused, mainly due to capacity. But I actually wanted to be able to share with my Board the the bigger environmental picture, a snapshot of this sector, where we are, and what’s going on those sorts of trends. They found it incredibly helpful, and I too found it incredibly helpful.
Being past retirement age (follow my skincare tips, obviously!), the people that I would normally talk to, at the end of the day, phone up a friend, have a bit of a moan, get some ideas, they’ve retired. There’s a real dissonance when I talk to people at times when they ask me “So how was your week?” and I’m like “Well, I had a board meeting, subcommittee meeting, strategy and policy discussions etc.” and then there’s silence or ‘Oh that’s lovely shall we move on?” I needed a community, I needed to find my group, or tribe. And I have and I’ve got some very good support.
The Community board has been brilliant for me. The first thing I did when I joined was to go on there and did what a lot of people do, I lurked (I’m very good at lurking!). After a while I start thinking there are some really good resources here – the search bar will be my friend! There were already lots of policies I needed and between the templates and the Community, I got everything that I wanted. I then started do something more than lurk and search. I started replying to posts and then I graduated to posting my own questions. One of them got picked up by ACEVO who said “Would you like to talk to us on the governance advice line” and that sounded like a good idea. The next time I had a governance question, I unhesitatingly went to the governance advice line and had a very creative and helpful discussion about a really quite unique dynamic that I was working through.
“In the course of that discussion, the mentoring programme was mentioned. Now I’ve been a mentor for a couple of times, but I’ve never been mentored. But as I said, I’m on my own, I need that sounding board. I’ve now got a mentor and I met with him a couple of weeks ago. We’re just having a chat and I said “I’ve got a new chair, and my new chair is new to being a chair. There’s a lot of newness going around here!” And he said “Well I went on the dynamic duo course with my new chair” which I thought was a really good idea, and I’ll be doing that with my chair, hopefully next year.
There’s been a progression of how I’ve used things. I’ve dipped in and out of the different elements of the support available. And in a way it’s like lots of different circles. They’re different sizes. Some of them are going at different speeds because I’m using them more quickly than the others but they’re all there and they’re all working in harmony. That’s been incredibly helpful and supportive for me.
I’ve just gone through the third of the race equity series, in my previous role I was co-chair of the EDI group. This series has been incredibly thought-provoking and very, very powerful. And again, it’s been something I’ve been able to share with my board because there’s huge issues around maternal discrimination, it resonated strongly with them.
But at the other end of that spectrum, I’ve been doing the my next three months sessions. It is an essential luxury to be able to step off the treadmill for an hour and invest in yourself. It’s a very slow paced, very reflective hour that you spend, focusing on your whole self – not just the work persona that’s sitting there typing away, but all the other personas.
One of the exercises was, “what do you want to achieve for the next three months?” For some people it’s a very work orientated goal. For me, I want to get to the beach more! I live five minutes away from the beach, I can hear the sea, I can see the lighthouse in the distance. But do you think I get to the beach enough? No. So that was my target. The weather occasionally wasn’t in my favour but it does seem to illustrate the sort of holistic approach that ACEVO has for its members, to ensure the whole of us is supported and catered for. Whatever stage you are in your career.
I’m nearing the end of my career but I’m still learning. I’m still getting a huge amount from this membership. And I’ve encouraged people I know to join. Unlike Groucho Marx who refused to join any club that would have him as a member, I am so pleased and proud to be a member of ACEVO. I think working together we can make this civil society even better and we can be even better in our roles, and we can make the charities that we work for even better.
Phil Kynaston, CEO, Nottingham Trent Students Union
“I joined ACEVO in 2022 when I became chief executive of Nottingham Trent Students’ Union. A colleague mentioned they’d been involved for a number of years and found it really useful, so I took a look at what was on offer and decided to join.
When I reflect back to that time and first starting my chief executive role, I can see that I was already feeling the pressures that come with the job. So I took the opportunity to have a new member call with ACEVO and hear about the benefits that could support me in my first CEO role.
The first activity I engaged with, was a facilitated Peer Action Learning Set. There were six of us in the group and we planned to meet for six sessions. Each time we met we would bring a current issue or problem we were trying to tackle. The cohort would ask questions to ease out the root cause, and ultimately try to help that member find a solution to their problems or find support. It was absolutely invaluable to me. So much so we still support each other through a WhatsApp group and through formal sessions that we now facilitate for ourselves. It’s been really, really beneficial and I have found talking about where we are on our journeys as leaders so worthwhile.
I always read Jane’s early Monday morning ‘Leader to Leader’ email. It’s a nice start to the week and it helps to summarise those key issues we’re all facing. Sometimes, in this role, it feels like you’re the only one with a particular challenge or problem, so it’s really beneficial to hear that lots of us have almost identical problems or at least very similar problems and are facing similar pressures. Because it makes you feel less alone.
I’ve attended quite a few ACEVO events, both online and in person. I love the in-person events – even though they require a bit more commitment. But I do try and make sure I do a mix of both, especially on topics that I’m very interested in, such as climate leadership. Those sessions in particular have been very useful and I found them really beneficial.
The Guides, tools and templates have been really, really helpful, and not having to start from scratch with a new policy or document is so handy and saves time. The online Community is also a great resource. I find it really useful to go into the Community and ask a question to other leaders, the response comes from such an informed place and is much better that Google. Here you usually find that others have got similar questions, or had similar problems or someone’s after a similar template. And again, this really helps to save you time and make you feel less alone.
How I use my membership varies. I might go a month and not engage at all and then I might engage with five things in one week. I get involved with what is relevant for me and that’s how I’ve gotten the most out of my membership, and how I intend to continue.”
Jamie Anderson, CEO, Age UK Wirral
Jamie’s nephew asked him, “What’s your job?”
Jamie’s response would typically be “Well that’s a silly question; you’re aware that I’m a chief executive.”
However, this response really didn’t provide the level of detail Jamie’s nephew expected!
In that instant, numerous potential explanations raced through Jamie’s thoughts,
“I keep all the plates spinning”
“I’m there to be the jack of all trades and the master of all trades”
“I’m there to provide the vision and operationally lead the entire organisation”
“I empty the bins and clean the toilets when the cleaner is off”
Yet none of them truly describe the role.
The reality of the breadth of what a chief executive role means in a third sector organisation is almost impossible to describe accurately, eloquently and succinctly. Early in Jamie’s career CEO vacancies were described as a figurehead, only there to network and externally represent the organisation.
Fast forward 25 years and CEOs are expected to have the most extensive set of skills and competencies in the world. They need commercial acumen for when they are tasked by trustees to increase unrestricted income by 100% in a week! They are expected to be magicians to treble the number of new volunteers overnight in response to capacity pressures! To have NATO level negotiation skills to navigate the relationships and tensions between volunteers, staff, trustees, commissioners, funders, clients, and the public. Chief executives are still getting used to switching the unmute button on in virtual meetings whilst understanding and developing a future-proof strategy for AI-driven business efficiency. Not forgetting to be experts in environmentally sustainability and driving the organisation to net zero.
And that’s just the tip of the iceberg.
While some of this is said flippantly, the message is clear, when things are going well being a leader of a third sector organisation is rewarding and inspiring. However, the current environment is extremely volatile and things are constantly changing and emerging. This means that when things start to become challenging it can be incredibly easy to start losing ourselves. A recent post on LinkedIn resonated with Jamie, it featured several CEOs being exceptionally candid and forthright regarding their experiences with compassion fatigue.
The true value of ACEVO membership
It’s lonely at the top is a phrase that probably only truly makes sense when you’ve been there and experienced it, for Jamie that is where the true value of ACEVO membership comes in.
Here is what he told new ACEVO members at a recent online event.
“For me ACEVO is about a sense of belonging to a wider community of sector leaders.
It gives me the reassurance that there is somewhere to turn when I’ve exhausted my own internal Wikipedia or when a google search is no longer giving me answers I need.
It’s a safe space where it’s okay to go to learning events and start learning about something from scratch – because the rest of the room is there learning from scratch as well!
The fact that ACEVO has such a clear purpose keeps its work so relevant for each one of us.
Recently, after reading the weekly e-bulletin from ACEVO, I found myself greatly inspired by the words of Jane Ide, ACEVO’s CEO. Her message resonated so strongly with me that I felt compelled to reach out and commend ACEVO for its remarkable ability to stay so in touch with its members.
I had a challenging issue and as a last resort devised a final plan to try and resolve the conflict, but I panicked that I had become so entrenched in the issue and was going about it incorrectly. Upon contacting ACEVO, I received a response within an hour and I found myself engaged in a valuable two-hour coaching session. My initial approach was indeed the correct one, but what significantly transformed was the level of confidence I possessed as I entered the session.
I also love the fact that ACEVO is also not London-centric – proactively trying to reach out to its membership in different localities.
For me personally, my ACEVO membership is a two-way process. It’s about giving and receiving. I’ve given my time to be part of the annual ACEVOFest conference by speaking in a session about imposter syndrome, not because I feel that I am the leading authority on imposter syndrome, nor do I feel that I am the best third sector leader in the world. I have also volunteered as a mentor and I believe these experiences enhance my own leadership. I learn just as much from my mentees as hopefully they do from me.
ACEVO is a person-centred membership body. My advice about getting the most of your membership would be, get to know the team. The team is exceptionally friendly and highly knowledgeable. However, it’s equally crucial that their work is grounded in a thorough understanding of the membership’s needs. Make sure you are getting the weekly Monday bulletin and set aside 10 mins to read it – it’s worthwhile. Attend the online events, they are easy to fit and much more cost effective then attending face to face ones. They are designed for us as an audience, and they are informative and thought provoking. Also, familiarise yourself with the website resources. Reach out when you need something and see ACEVO as an extension of your leadership toolkit! Successful leaders keep learning and ACEVO is your one stop shop. You won’t be disappointed.”
Katie Antill, CEO, Alzheimer's and Dementia Support Services
How ACEVO helped a member develop and support their leadership skills
Situation
Katie first joined ACEVO in 2019 as an Associate Member when she was a senior manager at Alzheimer’s and Dementia Support Services (ADSS). Katie felt this was offered as a consolation prize for an unsuccessful application for the chief executive officer position and was told it would support her development.
Katie wanted to make the most out of every developmental opportunity ACEVO membership offered.
What happened next….
Fast forward to spring 2020 and Katie is in a new role as the joint interim CEO at ADSS, the world is in the middle of a pandemic and the first UK’s lockdown happens.
This is compounded with some big governance changes at ADSS that needed to be made.
Support with governance
Katie used the Governance Advice Line and was relieved to hear that the advisor at ACEVO loved governance!
“I remember thinking ‘hmm how odd’ (that someone likes governance!), but I can honestly say with all the webinars and support I now love the feeling that good governance enables”
Building a professional network
“The online members’ events are fantastic, I learnt so much so quickly, it really helped me build up my support network with people I still work with closely outside of my ACEVO membership”
Getting professional support
“During the first lockdown, I felt ACEVO was there giving us a warm hug. On other days I felt ACEVO challenged us to become the best leaders we could be during unprecedented times”
Katie says all this support strengthened her relationship with the board, gave her confidence in her decision making and empowered her on the journey from joint CEO to CEO.
Confidence building
Katie says that she often doubts her ability, the monthly review meetings and the support and advice calls that ACEVO provides its members have been invaluable.
“I have received some beautifully calm and kind coaching conversations with ACEVO, this helped me realise what deep down I knew I needed to do. When I have felt totally out of my depth during a statutory tendering process ACEVO suggested mentoring and this helped me write successful bids”
Giving something back
Katie is such an advocate she has even joined the new members’ calls to talk about her positive membership experience.
She was also so inspired by the mentoring she received and she has now put herself forward to be a mentor herself.
“I did this to give something back and totally understimated how fantastic this would be for my own development. It’s very valdating to be able to see and communicate how people can make small changes to get to where they want to go.”
What’s happening now?
Katie is now a CEO at ADSS and the charity has doubled in size in the last nine months (thanks to all those successful bids!) and she now needs help with the growing pains, once again she turned to ACEVO.
“The support and learning opportunities I get from ACEVO have been a huge part of my journey from senior manager, to joint CEO, to CEO. ACEVO has given me the courage, knowledge, kindness, confidence and a respect for governance that I wouldn’t have got anywhere else. ADSS has had a successful, but tough few years and there have been so many times when we have benefitted from the advice and support ACEVO membership provides. I wouldn’t be the CEO I am, without an ACEVO membership”
Jay Breslaw, CEO, Survivors' Network
Find out how an ACEVO membership helps new CEOs
Situation
Jay is CEO of Survivors’ Network – the rape crisis centre for Sussex for 4 years, this is Jay’s first role at this level.
Jay joined ACEVO in 2020. At first she found the benefits that membership provided overwhelming and didn’t know where to start.
Which ACEVO features helped Jay the most when she first joined
All new members are offered a call when they join ACEVO.
“I really benefited from the new member call that I had with ACEVO. I also would really recommend attending the online new members’ meeting that really helped me to identify where to start”
Jay also found the various one-hour online member meetings a good starting point and very helpful to help prioritise her own developmental needs.
“The meetings are a unique opportunity to network with other chief executives and allowed me to have honest conversations with people outside of my current network. Also, through these networks I have made connections with other CEOs, that I still am in contact with”
Jay has also attended the paid-for workshops and has found this investment very worthwhile.
“I also attended the Dynamic Duo workshop and this really helped us improve our (chief executive and chair) working relationship”
Jay also used the ACEVO mentoring resource.
“I was matched with a CEO of a much larger charity, with a lot more experience and outside of the sector I am in and I felt the ACEVO team carefully considered who was the right match for me. The sessions have been very valuable, I talked to my mentor about my plan on how to approach an issue in a certain way and my mentor shared their experiences and provided some very useful tips”
However, the service that Jay found the most useful was the CEO in Crisis.
“ACEVO was so helpful when dealing with my issue. They found someone from one of the larger charities who had experienced a very similar issue and arranged a 121 call with them. I would never have made this contact if it wasn’t for ACEVO, they were very generous and also offered their chair to meet with my chair, the whole experience was very reassuring”
And to sum up her membership experience,
“Whenever I have contacted ACEVO, the response has always been reassuring. They have always made me feel valued and in a role were sometimes it’s hard to feel valued, it’s always good to know that ACEVO are there and you will always feel supported”
Giving something back
Jay is now such an advocate of ACEVO she has even joined the new members’ meetings to talk about her positive membership experience.
Laura Alcock-Ferguson, former CEO, Ancient Tree Forum
How ACEVO helped a member develop and support their leadership skills
Situation
Laura first joined ACEVO in 2019, she has always been committed to her own professional development after finishing her MBA in 2013. Now, as a CEO working three days a week for the charity Ancient Tree Forum, Laura realised that she needed specific and targeted development that also helped her to build her network of peers. ACEVO membership met these needs and more.
What benefits did Laura find most useful?
“I started to attend the digital member meetings relevant to me at the time. Once I became more familiar with the ACEVO membership offer, I started to attend the member networking events, a brilliant long series of sessions of peer mentoring – carefully matched after conversations with ACEVO and 121 advice and support, all of which have been exceptionally useful.”
“The online community also deserves a special mention. It is my go to place for asking my peers their thoughts and experiences”
Laura now tries to attend an event once a month and considers it part of her wellbeing.
“This is even more important for me as I work from home, connecting with my peers in this way has been vital to my spirit through some difficult times professional and even personally”
Laura says she would probably would not have stayed in her role so happily through such challenging times without the support of an ACEVO membership.
“At critical times ACEVO have been there, I know if I ever need help again, no matter how big or small, ACEVO will be there to help my wellbeing and resilience, as well as my charity, as it has allowed me to be the best CEO I can be”
ACEVO membership has meant that the Ancient Tree Forum has a clearer strategy – Laura found a great strategy consultant via an ACEVO member’s recommendation, a brilliant new trustee – advertised on ACEVO jobs.
Laura also says The Ancient Tree Forum now has better governance, via the many conversations she has had with ACEVO members, including better financial management, better practices around Equality, Diversity and Inclusion, the environment and strategy.
For me ACEVO is about a sense of belonging to a wider community of sector leaders. It gives me the reassurance that there is somewhere to turn when I've exhausted my own internal Wikipedia or when a google search is no longer giving me answers I need........The fact that ACEVO has such a clear purpose keeps its work so relevant for each one of us.
Jamie Anderson
I would probably not have stayed in my job so happily through such difficult times without the support of ACEVO staff, members and services
Laura Alcock-Ferguson
ACEVO has given me courage, knowledge, kindness, confidence, and a respect for governance that I wouldn’t have got anywhere else
Katie Antill
Whenever I have contacted ACEVO, the response has always been reassuring. They have always made me feel valued and in a role were sometimes it’s hard to feel valued, it’s always good to know that ACEVO are there and you will always feel supported
Jay Breslaw
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